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New Video Update entitled “Public and House Etiquette” is now available inside the Private Journal of the Member Area.

Friday, June 23rd, 2017

New Video Update.

Etiquette, decorum, and protocol are of critical importance in a well-functioning D/s household, so much that the lack of it can and will corrupt the spirit of Mistress and slave.  And while slavery is hard—sometimes unbearably hard with its unabated drudgery—a slave is quickened and enlivened by an arrangement of rules and protocols that leads them to understand and rely on the design in which they exist.

Roughly four years ago I posted My core ethos online for other Women to use with their slaves, should they find it helpful. I know more than a few have been leaning in on it, as a few sites/figures have literally published the document as their own. Since then, I’ve received several requests to speak more about the rules I implement for My slaves, and in considering the interest, I decided to shoot a video that incorporates these public and house etiquette rules. Once every so often, I have My slaves recite these rules, but this time I read them out loud for the viewer.

Enjoy!

Welcome Aboard

Thursday, June 22nd, 2017

New members, welcome!

 

Video coming later on House and Public rules for all slave-husbands!

Happy Father’s Day

Sunday, June 18th, 2017

Happy Father’s Day to all the great dads past and present, step-dads, dads-to-be, dads-wannabees, and acting dads!

 

New Photos Update entitled “Foot Stool” is now available inside the Private Journal of the Member Area.

Wednesday, June 7th, 2017

New Photos Update.

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New Voice Update entitled “Choice-Based Slavery: Self-Preservation and Internal Conflicts” is now available inside the Private Journal of the Member Area.

Tuesday, June 6th, 2017

New Audio Update.

 

On My Niteflirt advice line, I am sometimes asked how do My slaves deal with slavery and the letting go of the ego.  I don’t put much weight into the concept of “Ego” as I don’t see a separation of you and I.  The ego is a defense mechanism which says: “It’s me against the world.”   In Eastern philosophy teachings, we are all interconnected, interrelated and interdependent:  you can not exist without I; I can not exist without you.  The feeling of an isolated “I” is a mirage.  That said, this doesn’t help those seeking to learn how one abandons the ego in choice-based slavery.

Therefore, I have decided to write an essay about self-preservation, the internal conflicts that arise from same, and resolutions which may help.  Some men may see themselves in what I have to say.  Others may find this useful for future reference should they enter choice-based slavery.

 

 

 

New Video Update entitled “Time of Worship” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Sunday, May 28th, 2017

New Video with Voice-Over Update.

See a passing moment wherein My slave is allowed to express his adoration, on his knees—at his station.

Happy Memorial weekend!

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New Video Update entitled “The Nationalistic Mistress” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Wednesday, May 17th, 2017

New Video Update.

 

Salute My flag, and pledge your allegiance to My Nation!  This Nation is now Matriarchal and all males are deemed enemies of the State!

I had a little fun with My foreign slave.  I forced him to memorize The Pledge of Allegiance.  And, because of his heavy accent, he was caned for his abortive attempts at proper pronunciation.  Watch him struggle!

Enjoy!

 

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Happy Mother’s Day :)

Sunday, May 14th, 2017

A very Happy Mother’s Day to all Moms, Military Moms, Moms-to-be, acting-Moms, and Step-Moms!

 

 

To a Mother, your happiness is Her happiness, your disappointments are Her disappointments, your tears are Her tears, your accomplishments are Her accomplishments, your joys are Her joys, your needs are Her needs, your losses are Her losses; and She will, without hesitation, sacrifice everything to help you and walk with you through it all.

SaharahEve

News Media: A free, competitive and diverse enterprise?

Monday, May 1st, 2017

John McCain said on Meet the Press:  “We need a free press….”  He’s right.  The role of the press is, or should be, to protect citizens from a corrupt government.  To do so, freedom of the press must remain a constitutionally protected right under the first amendment. Free and easy access to information is a necessary component of public welfare.  The best press is one that’s not only free, but is also competitive and diverse.  But just how competitive and diverse is the press really?  Over recent years, the FCC, leaning toward a more market-orientated agenda, has been relaxing many of its public interest rules.  Since then, media consolidation has risen dramatically.   Today, the biggest news companies are owned by a small, handful of mass media corporations.  These same corporations also own the “who”, “what”, “when”, “where”and “how” of everything that you see and hear.

Making competition and diversity matters more complex, “each media corporation has a Board of Directors upon which sit representatives from other large corporations, many of which are non-media, non-news, oriented.”

Ever wonder why certain public heath and welfare related issues are largely ignored by media?

Perhaps there’s an Exxon executive sitting on the board of directors at FOX News.  Perhaps there’s a director from Philip Morris board of directors sitting on NBC’s board of directors.

The Boards of Directors of print and broadcast news organizations are populated by representatives of Ford, G.E, G.M, General Dynamic, Coke, ITT, IBM, Dow-Corning, Philip Morris, AT&T, and others. Given that distribution of ownership it’s not surprising that the concerns of labor are downplayed in the media” (Peoples V., 1997). ”

There’s been very limited coverage on links between fracking and earthquakes.

And, little coverage on oil spills.

When most major media is in the hands of a few, it leaves little room for diversity.  Without diversity you have no culture.  Culture cannot grow, creativity cannot thrive and innovation cannot be inspired when perspectives are confined to the same sources of information.

Ted Turner talked about the dangers of media conglomerates and protecting small business news media.

“Media companies have grown so large and powerful, and their dominance has become so detrimental to the survival of small, emerging companies, that there remains only one alternative: bust up the big conglomerates.”

How fast things have changed since he wrote the essay.

Unfortunately, Media is less a public guard-dog and more a marketer for government and corporate interests.  Well, that is until this new administration came along—an administration whose interests don’t seem to align much with We, the people.  Media, as the government watch-dog is back in full force, or so it seems.

Something from Nothing

Sunday, April 30th, 2017

Another lively conversation with Richard Dawkins and Lawrence Krauss.

“A truly open mind means forcing our imaginations to conform to the evidence of reality, and not vice versa,

whether or not we like the implications.”

Lawrence Krauss

Submissive-Male Journal Entries: Thoughts on Female-Led Relationships

Saturday, April 29th, 2017
New Private Blog endeavor.  Current and upcoming journal entries will offer an in-depth look into the mind of a submissive male (Slave R).  Holding a PhD in medicine he offers a unique, male POV into Female-Led relationships for those may find themselves interested in choice-based slavery within a FLR home.   His journal entries on submission and Female Supremacy are original; i.e., no hijacking and regurgitating writings off the internet (a common practice by some ).  For a refreshing, well-articulated  look into the mind of a submissive male, come take a look.

New Photos and Writing Update entitled “Slave R’s Journal: Thoughts on Discipline within a Female-led Relationship Home” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Monday, April 24th, 2017

New Photos and Writings Update.

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“The common mistake of the religious celibate has been to suppose that the highest spiritual life absolutely demands the renunciation of sexuality, as if the knowledge of God were an alternative to the knowledge of woman, or to any other form of experience.”
Alan W. Watts, Nature, Man and Woman

New Photos Update Entitled: Pretty Manicure and Pedicure, and Writing entitled “Slave R’s Journal: Thoughts on Female Dominance and Female-led Relationships” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Tuesday, April 18th, 2017

Two New Photos update.

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New Photo and Writing entitled “Prolonged Chastity”, and a new email from a prospective slave are now available within the Private Journal of the Member Area.

Sunday, April 16th, 2017

New Photo and Writing Updates.

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New Photos Update entitled “The Beauty in Slave Reverence” and a new Writing entitled “Slave R’s Journal: Thoughts on Slavery within a Female-led Relationship Home” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Wednesday, April 12th, 2017

New Photos and Writing Update.

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New Photos and Writing Update entitled “Paddled Husband: Proper Form” and “Sexy Mistress Before Shower” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Sunday, April 9th, 2017

New Photos and Writing Update.

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New Photos Update entitled “Mistress and Pet” and A Slave Essay are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Thursday, April 6th, 2017

New Photos and Writing Updates.

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Bald Mistress

Thursday, April 6th, 2017

To make the upcoming tennis match more fun, we decided to have the males shave their heads to match My tennis partner.  She’s a shaved-head Domina—therefore, the males will be too.  Video will come soon!

“Anglish – What if English Were 100% Germanic?”

Tuesday, April 4th, 2017

Amazing! What synchronized swimmers look like upside down.

Tuesday, April 4th, 2017

 

Amazing!  What synchronized swimmers look like upside down. Check it out here!

Entertaining Tennis Match

Tuesday, April 4th, 2017

Myself, and a good friend and popular Domina, will be having a tennis match against two cross-dressing, wig-wearing Female-wannabee males.  We are going to film the event.  Catch is: they will be wearing high heels, wigs, etc. — the whole nine yards.  Look out for the video!

New Photos entitled “Service in Paris” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Monday, April 3rd, 2017

New Photos update in Journal.

Capacity for Compassion Fades in the Face of Genocide

Sunday, April 2nd, 2017

“If I look at the mass I will never act.”

A resolution on the 1915 Armenian Genocide was recently introduced in Congress by Representatives Dave Trott, and Adam Schiff.  It’s legislation to officially recognize genocide.  It got me thinking about why many of us go numb and fail to take action in the face of large scale massacres and abuses.

Do you recall the horrifying image of a child refugee who drowned while trying to escape his war-torn country?  The image brought the world to tears.  Yet, just twenty-four hours later, similar refugee images had circulated the internet but failed to elicit equal outrage.  The difference was in the number of victims.  Why did the image of one victim engender more sympathy than images depicting the same tragedy with more victims?

The same psychological tendency happened with the story of Cecil the Lion.  The public was outraged by the death of Cecil, the lion killed for sport by a dentist.  Meanwhile, hundreds of animals— on a much larger scale, are killed for sport yearly, and most fail to engender the same level of visceral outcry.

The quote by Joseph Stalin: “One death is a tragedy; a million deaths is a statistic.” is the perfect apropos for this psychological phenomena called compassion fade.

Why is this?  Why does our sympathy decline, and our capacity for compassion and our desire to help fade when the number of victims rise? Why does one death or one example of abuse leave us more upset than genocide and other urgent, global issues such as climate change?

The answers lie in the numbers; in something termed “arithmetic of compassion” by Zbigniew Herbert.

A study on “compassion fade”, conducted by Paul Slovic, showed that our compassion for victims decline as the number of victims rise. The emotion areas of our brains will deactivate, or go “numb” in response to higher number of victims or larger scale problems.

The study found 3 psychological mechanisms behind arithmetic of compassion:

1. Psych numbing:  our sympathy for victims fades if the number of victims is higher than one: compassion fade.

2.  Prominence effect:  placing more value on issues in the near-term, e.g., current affairs, and less value on issues that seem too remote and abstract, e.g., climate change.

3.  Pseudo-inefficacy:  we lose our desire to help even just one victim when we’re consumed by how many others we can’t help.  Helping one seems futile and less desirable when there are many more we can’t help.

Amazing there’s a science behind why our capacity for compassion fades the greater the number of victims.

For more reading on this interesting phenomena check out this study.

“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”
Aesop

Letter from Prospective Slave

Sunday, April 2nd, 2017

From time to time, I share with you certain letters we receive.  Here’s one.  I’ll be elaborating more inside the private journal as I have an upcoming “slave interview” with him.  I will film this interview as I have the others.  Look out for the video coming soon.

Dear SaharahEve,

My experience meeting you:

I will say that I have been following Saharah Eve for a number of years as an acolyte. I recently made contact with her on Night Flirt to see about meeting her as part of my path to slavery to her (to see if this was even obtainable).

I sent a letter of introduction (an essay of sorts) that spoke to my idea of how i viewed submission and desire to follow that into the ultimate paradise….slavery. After talking with Saharah Eve on the phone (emails, sending photos and essay) We/we agreed to meet for a dinner and light drinks.

The moment i saw her walk up and greet me with a hug was unbelievable…we seemed to start talking almost immediately…she asked about my background and some on how i veiwed myself…..I have a PhD and am a geek at heart.

Her personality, Her demeanor, Her beauty, all combined with her confidence.. that unspoken “knowing” of Her Superiority..and an immediate consensual sense of my place ….beneath Her.

She was soft spoken, very engaging, enthusiastic about learning new things, optimistic, and most of all her contentment, with Her position of power…ruling over those beneath Her….males….as it should be.

I am not sure that i have ever met someone that conveyed without saying a word such power in such a wonderful person ever before.

After hearing her speak for a few minutes i realized that i was in the presence of greatness.

Her attitude and the confidence of her personality confirmed my desire to meet and work my way to becoming her slave. The way She is makes you want to serve Her, obey Her, make her smile, She does this all with just Her Persona – Presence.

NAME OMITTED

 

Quick Swipe

Saturday, April 1st, 2017

The tag-line on My site’s splash page here states “Most Influential Icon in Female Supremacy.” We have also decided to add, “and most Imitated” to it a while back.  Some people may wonder from time to time why I say these things, but the sorts of discoveries found turn out to justify the claim.

Some popular “Female Supremacist/Female-Led Relationship”  FemDom fetish actresses imitate My intellectual content (details behind My lifestyle protocols, philosophies, and concepts behind My images and videos), and also “borrow” My words, too. Those who follow the online Femdom fetish celebrities will likely have no trouble realizing this fact.

They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, and I guess it’s true.  That said, when it comes to intellectual property (ideas, writings, videos, etc.) I would disagree emphatically with that.  In this case, imitation is simply theft, and demonstrates not only an impoverished, lazy imagination, but a patent disrespect for the source of said inspiration. Lack of originality and authenticity I suppose engenders a special form of “imitation”.

French and Italian Have High Lexical Similarities

Wednesday, March 29th, 2017

Do you speak French?  If so, you could learn Italian in an almost effortless fashion:  both languages share an 89% lexical similarity.

 

“Beautiful people do not just happen.”

Wednesday, March 22nd, 2017

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.

Beautiful people do not just happen.”

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

 

New Video Update entitled “I Control His Fertilizer” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Thursday, March 16th, 2017

New Video Update.

These next two updates are about slaves’ addictions to inequality and the state of denial and chastity.

Part one of this series is a video that centers upon My slave’s torturous night of being sexually teased and painfully denied.

Part two of this series will be an audio clip—in hypnosis format, of My speaking to My slave about his chastity and what his release signifies to Me.

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Nanshakh’s Written and Visual Heroic Fantasies of a FemDom/Female Supremacy World

Tuesday, March 7th, 2017

It’s fairly common knowledge that a portion of BDSM erotica books are written by submissive men who use Female pen names—this makes sense as the stories are male-centric in nature. And what better way to describe a male’s sexual turn-ons than to have the stories written by an author who is himself “male”.   Male authors, in other genres, have also written books under Female pen names, e.g., Harold Lowry, writing under Leigh Greenwood.  A good book is a good book no matter the sex of the author.  That being said, there is one fantastic author of heroic, FemDom/Female Supremacy fantasy who is 100% male and writes as a male.    Not only does he write exciting FemDom fantasy stories, he’s also an artist.  His name is Nanshakh.  He’s a man who knows FemDom beyond the dimensions of fantasy— he has lived the daily reality of it.  And not as a fun, fetish-party weekend “slave”; rather, he was a TPE consensual slave.  Thus, when he creates his images, he is doing so from primal understanding and first hand experience.  This minor fact adds a seductive allure to his stories and drawings, and places him in a unique category onto his own.   So, grab a mocha beverage and hop in bed with Nanshakh, er, with one of his stories!  Lol

Stay tuned for an upcoming blog.

 

Democracy or Corporatocracy?

Wednesday, March 1st, 2017

Media has a dual role of not only protecting the public from a corrupt government, but also in shaping our perspectives.  Making informed decisions depends upon receiving balanced, fact-based news.  As such, the agenda of the Media must be kept under a microscope.  If Media serves only the interests of government and corporations, where is that democratic watchdog, i.e., the Media?  It’s fair to say, once faith in the Press is shattered, faith in democracy shatters too.   And, while everyone knows major Media is driven largely by profits, there will always remain a need for principled journalism—patently.  If Media no longer serves the interest of the People, the unspeakable implication is —we don’t really live in a democratic society.   All the more reason to promote and support independent, investigative journalists.

New Blog Updates: Lingerie Party and Slave Mantra Hypnosis Audio in the Private Journal of the Member Area

Monday, February 27th, 2017

Two (2) new Photo and Audio-Hypnosis updates in the Private Journal.

Eight Types of Corporate Apologies!

Saturday, February 25th, 2017

New Photos Update entitled “Quickie” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area

Thursday, February 16th, 2017

New Photos Update.

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Ps. Coming:  New blog writing regarding loneliness and how it relates to Submissive men.  It’s a spin off of My earlier post regarding general loneliness.

Happy Birthday Vanity

Thursday, February 16th, 2017

The only Woman Prince could not forget.

Tease Thursdays – Adult Fun

Monday, February 13th, 2017

Mistresses love to send teaser clips to further torture their “seed-retaining” long-distance slaves!  Here’s a snippet.

Click Play button below.

New Video Update entitled “Ouch Ouch: Tease-Deny and Ball Smash” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Friday, February 10th, 2017

New Video Update.

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Chronic Loneliness

Tuesday, February 7th, 2017
I wrote this entry yesterday for some of My members who say they suffer from loneliness.
There’s a myriad of reasons for loneliness, but one thing is certain: it’s bad for your health. Loneliness can lead to physical problems, alcoholism, depression and permanent social disconnect. Anyone can suffer from loneliness, even famous people surrounded by an entourage of “friends” because loneliness is about feeling sad over social disconnect and isolation.
Over time, the feeling of disconnectedness can lead to “social evasion”. Social evasion is a fight or flight response— a physiological reaction to a perceived threat. Over time lonely people become defensive and develop an overall feeling of mistrust for almost everyone— leading to further isolation.
Loneliness can be circumstantial or chronic. Circumstantial loneliness stems from temporary, situational circumstances, e.g., death, divorce, a move.
Chronic loneliness arises over a period of time and can stem from either past abuse or neglect, varying forms of mental illnesses, or drug and alcohol abuse. Chronic loneliness is not so easily overcome. Which brings Me to the main issue of this entry. Overcoming loneliness. What are the solutions?
The remedies for circumstantial loneliness are abundant: check city’s Town Hall and/or Library for local community groups; join a bookstore reading club, gym, riding club, golf club or even a church.
But what about those who suffer from chronic loneliness—those who have difficulty making connections? Joining a group and being surrounded by people is the last thing they want to do. So what can they do? Social media connections don’t help much. Studies show social media can cause some isolated people to feel more isolated. One caveat, however, is joining online communities for lonely/socially isolated people. I’ve lurked around a few of these communities for a while trying to better understand their experiences. Surprisingly I’ve seen quite a number of relationships form within these forums. These communities bring together like-minded people. As members share their experiences, other members find others whom they feel share a similar story. We tend to trust and bond with those whom we feel are similar to us and whom we feel can empathize with our realties. These types of communities offer this chance.
“But since everything like and akin to oneself is pleasant, and since every man is himself more like and akin to himself than any one else is, it follows that all of us must be more or less fond of ourselves…That is why we are usually fond of our flatterers, [our lovers,] and honour; also of our children, for our children are our own work.”

Aristotle 

Becoming a volunteer can also help alleviate loneliness.  Serving others is a great way to forget about oneself.  And, it fosters a sense of gratitude. Having a sense of gratitude is like homemade medicine.  In gratitude, there’s no room for longing.
So those are My two solutions for chronic loneliness: joining community forums for loneliness/social isolation, and volunteering.  Of course, there are also pharmaceutical and cognitive therapies for loneliness, especially when associated with mental health issues.
I hope some of this helps.

 

M.I.L.F.$ (FemDom!)

Tuesday, February 7th, 2017

Not meant to be taken at face value.  Just get up and dance, mkay? 😉

 

 

New Blog and Photo entitled “Just Kink? My Conversations with Vanilla-Kink Submissives” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area

Friday, February 3rd, 2017

New Blog Writing and Photo in the Private Journal. 

Just Kink? My Conversations with Vanilla-Kink Submissives

Friday, February 3rd, 2017

 

What’s vanilla-kink?  I’ll first tell you what it’s not.  It’s not heavy bondage (B).  It’s not heavy discipline (D).  It’s not heavy sadism (S). It’s not heavy masochism  (M).

You’re beginning to get the picture? 😉

“Vanilla-Kink” is “BDSM-light”, or “Pop-Culture” kink, i.e.,  it’s a soft version of BDSM: blind folds, light bondage (handcuffs, etc), light pain (candle wax, spanking), anal sex, role-play (the mean teacher/naughty student; the perverted, deranged doctor, etc).  Vanilla-Kink is a lot more popular than both hardcore BDSM, and even consensual slavery within a Female-led relationship w/ a twist of BDSM (yours truly). 😉

What distinguishes vanilla-kink from consensual slavery?  Power dynamics outside of the bedroom.

For the vanilla-kink submissive male, BDSM is light and temporary; his “submission” ends when the lights come on.  He’s a male who wants a vanilla Woman in the day; and a dark, domineering Diva at night.  His “submission” is erotized in that it is her sex, not her “Person”, that inspires his submission.

For the slave, on the other hand, his submission extends beyond fantasy-fulfillment. He doesn’t want a Woman whose dominance is compartmentalized to the bedroom; he yearns for a Woman to command him beyond the sheets.  He wants to live for something beyond himself.  He wants a reason to toil and work hard and he wants Her to be that reason.

Vanilla-kink submissives who call Me often despair at the difficulty in finding a Woman to fulfill their submissive fantasies.  If he doesn’t want to hire a professional Mistress (aka: Top/Dominatrix/Domina) he’s stuck with having to find a vanilla Woman who’s sexually turned on by top-serving him in the bedroom.  (A “Top” is one who gives pleasure to the other— the “Receiver”, or, “Bottom”.)  If he has a partner already, it’s possible he could use persuasion, hoping that “love” will inspire her to top him.  (I’ve offered successful advice for how to broach this subject with a partner.  Sometimes it works; sometimes it doesn’t.)  That being said, it’s likely to feel sterile and mechanical if the desire to do this is not authentic.

Anyway, read My advice to My single, vanilla-kink submissives inside in the Private Journal of the Member Area.  The solution I offer will shock you.  It’s a simple solution and one that’s very contrary to what you’d expect.

Have a great weekend!

The Boston Marathon Registration Official Date!!

Thursday, February 2nd, 2017

The BostonMarathon 2018 registration will open on September 11, at 10 AM!

 

Picture source:  baa.org

New Photos entitled “Mistress is Home” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

Sunday, January 29th, 2017

New Photos update in the Private Journal.

Videos

Sunday, January 29th, 2017

(Too much soda is bad for you; the commercial’s cute!)

New Year, New Team, One Nightmare

Sunday, January 22nd, 2017
Sadly for Women across the world, the Trump Admin reinstated the global gag rule.  In turn, the very progressive Netherlands countered him with an international abortion fund.   http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/2017/01/25/netherlands-counters-trump-international-abortion-fund

Banning abortion doesn’t make it stop; it makes it deadly.

Sister and brother advocates of: Civil Rights, Climate Change, Healthcare, LGBT Rights, Women’s Issues —these issues are deleted from the new Trump-White-House website.
And,
Gag Orders on various Governmental agencies designed to protect the public, and soon—Domestic violence de-funding…  no new dream of making America great again…

Make Your Heart Melt

Saturday, January 21st, 2017

Oh boy, what a shot!  This little guy is a miracle.  The future looks bright for him!  So happy he’s been born into such loving parents/family too.