Amazing! What synchronized swimmers look like upside down.

April 4th, 2017

 

Amazing!  What synchronized swimmers look like upside down. Check it out here!

Entertaining Tennis Match

April 4th, 2017

Myself, and a good friend and popular Domina, will be having a tennis match against two cross-dressing, wig-wearing Female-wannabee males.  We are going to film the event.  Catch is: they will be wearing high heels, wigs, etc. — the whole nine yards.  Look out for the video!

New Photos entitled “Service in Paris” are now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

April 3rd, 2017

New Photos update in Journal.

Capacity for Compassion Fades in the Face of Genocide

April 2nd, 2017

“If I look at the mass I will never act.”

A resolution on the 1915 Armenian Genocide was recently introduced in Congress by Representatives Dave Trott, and Adam Schiff.  It’s legislation to officially recognize genocide.  It got me thinking about why many of us go numb and fail to take action in the face of large scale massacres and abuses.

Do you recall the horrifying image of a child refugee who drowned while trying to escape his war-torn country?  The image brought the world to tears.  Yet, just twenty-four hours later, similar refugee images had circulated the internet but failed to elicit equal outrage.  The difference was in the number of victims.  Why did the image of one victim engender more sympathy than images depicting the same tragedy with more victims?

The same psychological tendency happened with the story of Cecil the Lion.  The public was outraged by the death of Cecil, the lion killed for sport by a dentist.  Meanwhile, hundreds of animals— on a much larger scale, are killed for sport yearly, and most fail to engender the same level of visceral outcry.

The quote by Joseph Stalin: “One death is a tragedy; a million deaths is a statistic.” is the perfect apropos for this psychological phenomena called compassion fade.

Why is this?  Why does our sympathy decline, and our capacity for compassion and our desire to help fade when the number of victims rise? Why does one death or one example of abuse leave us more upset than genocide and other urgent, global issues such as climate change?

The answers lie in the numbers; in something termed “arithmetic of compassion” by Zbigniew Herbert.

A study on “compassion fade”, conducted by Paul Slovic, showed that our compassion for victims decline as the number of victims rise. The emotion areas of our brains will deactivate, or go “numb” in response to higher number of victims or larger scale problems.

The study found 3 psychological mechanisms behind arithmetic of compassion:

1. Psych numbing:  our sympathy for victims fades if the number of victims is higher than one: compassion fade.

2.  Prominence effect:  placing more value on issues in the near-term, e.g., current affairs, and less value on issues that seem too remote and abstract, e.g., climate change.

3.  Pseudo-inefficacy:  we lose our desire to help even just one victim when we’re consumed by how many others we can’t help.  Helping one seems futile and less desirable when there are many more we can’t help.

Amazing there’s a science behind why our capacity for compassion fades the greater the number of victims.

For more reading on this interesting phenomena check out this study.

“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”
Aesop

Letter from Prospective Slave

April 2nd, 2017

From time to time, I share with you certain letters we receive.  Here’s one.  I’ll be elaborating more inside the private journal as I have an upcoming “slave interview” with him.  I will film this interview as I have the others.  Look out for the video coming soon.

Dear SaharahEve,

My experience meeting you:

I will say that I have been following Saharah Eve for a number of years as an acolyte. I recently made contact with her on Night Flirt to see about meeting her as part of my path to slavery to her (to see if this was even obtainable).

I sent a letter of introduction (an essay of sorts) that spoke to my idea of how i viewed submission and desire to follow that into the ultimate paradise….slavery. After talking with Saharah Eve on the phone (emails, sending photos and essay) We/we agreed to meet for a dinner and light drinks.

The moment i saw her walk up and greet me with a hug was unbelievable…we seemed to start talking almost immediately…she asked about my background and some on how i veiwed myself…..I have a PhD and am a geek at heart.

Her personality, Her demeanor, Her beauty, all combined with her confidence.. that unspoken “knowing” of Her Superiority..and an immediate consensual sense of my place ….beneath Her.

She was soft spoken, very engaging, enthusiastic about learning new things, optimistic, and most of all her contentment, with Her position of power…ruling over those beneath Her….males….as it should be.

I am not sure that i have ever met someone that conveyed without saying a word such power in such a wonderful person ever before.

After hearing her speak for a few minutes i realized that i was in the presence of greatness.

Her attitude and the confidence of her personality confirmed my desire to meet and work my way to becoming her slave. The way She is makes you want to serve Her, obey Her, make her smile, She does this all with just Her Persona – Presence.

NAME OMITTED

 

Quick Swipe

April 1st, 2017

The tag-line on My site’s splash page here states “Most Influential Icon in Female Supremacy.” We have also decided to add, “and most Imitated” to it a while back.  Some people may wonder from time to time why I say these things, but the sorts of discoveries found turn out to justify the claim.

Some popular “Female Supremacist/Female-Led Relationship”  FemDom fetish actresses imitate My intellectual content (details behind My lifestyle protocols, philosophies, and concepts behind My images and videos), and also “borrow” My words, too. Those who follow the online Femdom fetish celebrities will likely have no trouble realizing this fact.

They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, and I guess it’s true.  That said, when it comes to intellectual property (ideas, writings, videos, etc.) I would disagree emphatically with that.  In this case, imitation is simply theft, and demonstrates not only an impoverished, lazy imagination, but a patent disrespect for the source of said inspiration. Lack of originality and authenticity I suppose engenders a special form of “imitation”.

French and Italian Have High Lexical Similarities

March 29th, 2017

Do you speak French?  If so, you could learn Italian in an almost effortless fashion:  both languages share an 89% lexical similarity.

 

“Beautiful people do not just happen.”

March 22nd, 2017

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.

Beautiful people do not just happen.”

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

 

New Video Update entitled “I Control His Fertilizer” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

March 16th, 2017

New Video Update.

These next two updates are about slaves’ addictions to inequality and the state of denial and chastity.

Part one of this series is a video that centers upon My slave’s torturous night of being sexually teased and painfully denied.

Part two of this series will be an audio clip—in hypnosis format, of My speaking to My slave about his chastity and what his release signifies to Me.

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Democracy or Corporatocracy?

March 1st, 2017

Media has a dual role of not only protecting the public from a corrupt government, but also in shaping our perspectives.  Making informed decisions depends upon receiving balanced, fact-based news.  As such, the agenda of the Media must be kept under a microscope.  If Media serves only the interests of government and corporations, where is that democratic watchdog, i.e., the Media?  It’s fair to say, once faith in the Press is shattered, faith in democracy shatters too.   And, while everyone knows major Media is driven largely by profits, there will always remain a need for principled journalism—patently.  If Media no longer serves the interest of the People, the unspeakable implication is —we don’t really live in a democratic society.   All the more reason to promote and support independent, investigative journalists.

New Blog Updates: Lingerie Party and Slave Mantra Hypnosis Audio in the Private Journal of the Member Area

February 27th, 2017

Two (2) new Photo and Audio-Hypnosis updates in the Private Journal.

Eight Types of Corporate Apologies!

February 25th, 2017

New Photos Update entitled “Quickie” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area

February 16th, 2017

New Photos Update.

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Ps. Coming:  New blog writing regarding loneliness and how it relates to Submissive men.  It’s a spin off of My earlier post regarding general loneliness.

Happy Birthday Vanity

February 16th, 2017

The only Woman Prince could not forget.

Tease Thursdays – Adult Fun

February 13th, 2017

Mistresses love to send teaser clips to further torture their “seed-retaining” long-distance slaves!  Here’s a snippet.

Click Play button below.

New Video Update entitled “Ouch Ouch: Tease-Deny and Ball Smash” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

February 10th, 2017

New Video Update.

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Chronic Loneliness

February 7th, 2017
I wrote this entry yesterday for some of My members who say they suffer from loneliness.
There’s a myriad of reasons for loneliness, but one thing is certain: it’s bad for your health. Loneliness can lead to physical problems, alcoholism, depression and permanent social disconnect. Anyone can suffer from loneliness, even famous people surrounded by an entourage of “friends” because loneliness is about feeling sad over social disconnect and isolation.
Over time, the feeling of disconnectedness can lead to “social evasion”. Social evasion is a fight or flight response— a physiological reaction to a perceived threat. Over time lonely people become defensive and develop an overall feeling of mistrust for almost everyone— leading to further isolation.
Loneliness can be circumstantial or chronic. Circumstantial loneliness stems from temporary, situational circumstances, e.g., death, divorce, a move.
Chronic loneliness arises over a period of time and can stem from either past abuse or neglect, varying forms of mental illnesses, or drug and alcohol abuse. Chronic loneliness is not so easily overcome. Which brings Me to the main issue of this entry. Overcoming loneliness. What are the solutions?
The remedies for circumstantial loneliness are abundant: check city’s Town Hall and/or Library for local community groups; join a bookstore reading club, gym, riding club, golf club or even a church.
But what about those who suffer from chronic loneliness—those who have difficulty making connections? Joining a group and being surrounded by people is the last thing they want to do. So what can they do? Social media connections don’t help much. Studies show social media can cause some isolated people to feel more isolated. One caveat, however, is joining online communities for lonely/socially isolated people. I’ve lurked around a few of these communities for a while trying to better understand their experiences. Surprisingly I’ve seen quite a number of relationships form within these forums. These communities bring together like-minded people. As members share their experiences, other members find others whom they feel share a similar story. We tend to trust and bond with those whom we feel are similar to us and whom we feel can empathize with our realties. These types of communities offer this chance.
“But since everything like and akin to oneself is pleasant, and since every man is himself more like and akin to himself than any one else is, it follows that all of us must be more or less fond of ourselves…That is why we are usually fond of our flatterers, [our lovers,] and honour; also of our children, for our children are our own work.”

Aristotle 

Becoming a volunteer can also help alleviate loneliness.  Serving others is a great way to forget about oneself.  And, it fosters a sense of gratitude. Having a sense of gratitude is like homemade medicine.  In gratitude, there’s no room for longing.
So those are My two solutions for chronic loneliness: joining community forums for loneliness/social isolation, and volunteering.  Of course, there are also pharmaceutical and cognitive therapies for loneliness, especially when associated with mental health issues.
I hope some of this helps.

 

M.I.L.F.$ (FemDom!)

February 7th, 2017

Not meant to be taken at face value.  Just get up and dance, mkay? 😉

 

 

New Blog and Photo entitled “Just Kink? My Conversations with Vanilla-Kink Submissives” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area

February 3rd, 2017

New Blog Writing and Photo in the Private Journal. 

Just Kink? My Conversations with Vanilla-Kink Submissives

February 3rd, 2017

 

What’s vanilla-kink?  I’ll first tell you what it’s not.  It’s not heavy bondage (B).  It’s not heavy discipline (D).  It’s not heavy sadism (S). It’s not heavy masochism  (M).

You’re beginning to get the picture? 😉

“Vanilla-Kink” is “BDSM-light”, or “Pop-Culture” kink, i.e.,  it’s a soft version of BDSM: blind folds, light bondage (handcuffs, etc), light pain (candle wax, spanking), anal sex, role-play (the mean teacher/naughty student; the perverted, deranged doctor, etc).  Vanilla-Kink is a lot more popular than both hardcore BDSM, and even consensual slavery within a Female-led relationship w/ a twist of BDSM (yours truly). 😉

What distinguishes vanilla-kink from consensual slavery?  Power dynamics outside of the bedroom.

For the vanilla-kink submissive male, BDSM is light and temporary; his “submission” ends when the lights come on.  He’s a male who wants a vanilla Woman in the day; and a dark, domineering Diva at night.  His “submission” is erotized in that it is her sex, not her “Person”, that inspires his submission.

For the slave, on the other hand, his submission extends beyond fantasy-fulfillment. He doesn’t want a Woman whose dominance is compartmentalized to the bedroom; he yearns for a Woman to command him beyond the sheets.  He wants to live for something beyond himself.  He wants a reason to toil and work hard and he wants Her to be that reason.

Vanilla-kink submissives who call Me often despair at the difficulty in finding a Woman to fulfill their submissive fantasies.  If he doesn’t want to hire a professional Mistress (aka: Top/Dominatrix/Domina) he’s stuck with having to find a vanilla Woman who’s sexually turned on by top-serving him in the bedroom.  (A “Top” is one who gives pleasure to the other— the “Receiver”, or, “Bottom”.)  If he has a partner already, it’s possible he could use persuasion, hoping that “love” will inspire her to top him.  (I’ve offered successful advice for how to broach this subject with a partner.  Sometimes it works; sometimes it doesn’t.)  That being said, it’s likely to feel sterile and mechanical if the desire to do this is not authentic.

Anyway, read My advice to My single, vanilla-kink submissives inside in the Private Journal of the Member Area.  The solution I offer will shock you.  It’s a simple solution and one that’s very contrary to what you’d expect.

Have a great weekend!

The Boston Marathon Registration Official Date!!

February 2nd, 2017

The BostonMarathon 2018 registration will open on September 11, at 10 AM!

 

Picture source:  baa.org

New Photos entitled “Mistress is Home” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

January 29th, 2017

New Photos update in the Private Journal.

Videos

January 29th, 2017

(Too much soda is bad for you; the commercial’s cute!)

New Year, New Team, One Nightmare

January 22nd, 2017
Sadly for Women across the world, the Trump Admin reinstated the global gag rule.  In turn, the very progressive Netherlands countered him with an international abortion fund.   http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/2017/01/25/netherlands-counters-trump-international-abortion-fund

Banning abortion doesn’t make it stop; it makes it deadly.

Sister and brother advocates of: Civil Rights, Climate Change, Healthcare, LGBT Rights, Women’s Issues —these issues are deleted from the new Trump-White-House website.
And,
Gag Orders on various Governmental agencies designed to protect the public, and soon—Domestic violence de-funding…  no new dream of making America great again…

Make Your Heart Melt

January 21st, 2017

Oh boy, what a shot!  This little guy is a miracle.  The future looks bright for him!  So happy he’s been born into such loving parents/family too.

 

 

 

Lady Liberty

January 20th, 2017

Things will be grim for many People in many Countries, but do not despair—this Lady will return.

Two of My Favorite

January 19th, 2017

Need a break from current political mayhem?  Sit back and enjoy a lively conversation with Neil de Grasse  Tyson and Richard Dawkins!  Is the Universe bigger than our horizon of 14 Billion light years?

New Audio entitled “Financial Domination of My Slave” is now available within the Private Journal Page of the Member Area.

January 18th, 2017

New Audio Update in the Private Journal.

Cruel humiliation never felt so good!  If you understood erotic humiliation, you would understand the appeal— trust Me, lol!

New audio.  I have two long-distance slaves.  After some time of corresponding over the phone, I began their training on-line and eventually met them in person— both here in the US and abroad.  When I don’t have them in the flesh, it’s especially important to keep the dynamic exciting.  I become bored of men quite easily, thus, it’s to their advantages I’m creative and know how to incorporate a few good mind-fucks into the mix.  I love to humiliate My boys!

The update is an audio of an email I wrote to My long-distance slave.  It’s a snippet.  

The audio begins as written below.

     Dearest fart-sniffing, cock-sucking, ass-worshipping, boot-licking, piss-drinking, shit-eating, sperm-guzzling cash-pig, slave:

Let’s get one thing straight: your balls belong under My boot heels.  (Hear the rest inside.)

 

 

Update Notifications to be Posted in the Blog

January 16th, 2017

All update notifications for new Videos, informal Writings, formal Articles and Photos will be posted in Blue and only found here on the blog.  No longer using the Video or Member News pages for updates.

Heaven

January 16th, 2017

Imagine being a baby and having this beautiful voice rock you to sleep!

Want a Private Concert with U2!

January 12th, 2017

Fans of U2, by making a donation toward the cure for AIDs at RED, Omaze is giving you the chance to win a private U2 band rehearsal experience!

We live in a completely interdependent world, which simply means we cannot escape each other.  How we respond to AIDS depends, in part, on whether we understand this interdependence.  It is not someone else’s problem.  This is everybody’s problem.

Bill Clinton

New Video entitled “Ball Busting Chicken Liver” is now available within the Private Video and Journal Page of the Member Area.

January 12th, 2017

New Video update in the Private Video Page.

My males are born for one thing: to please Me in all ways—ways they may or may not like. Often I enjoy using their pain as My amusement and pleasure. Look at Me— My slaves could never say no to Me. I forced him to swallow down dry, rubbery chicken livers. The sight of his torment amused Me to no end! Oh, and I beat his dumb nuts too. This was worse for him than eating the horrendous livers. But he loves Me and there’s no end to what he would do for Me, no matter how arduous! My perfection rules him!

Fandom in FemDom

January 9th, 2017

Hey guys, thanks for the compliments on the article ParaSocial Interactions; I’m pleased you found it informative.  It’s nice to know your obsessions with us FemDoms is healthy, isn’t it!  LOL, keep up the fandom, boys!  I’m writing another piece on BDSM and how the lifestyle is no longer a stigmatized mental illness when enjoyed by consenting adults. 

They say you don’t grow if you never change; they’re right.  I used to have a mild aversion to being termed “Goddess” by males I don’t know.  The label “Goddess” seemed to Me a Hokuspokus way to use adulation to impress Me.  I suppose because I’ve mainly seen it used by men in an ostentatious way— picture a man patting a Woman on the head:  “Good girl, you have pleased me, I approve.  Now, for that compliment, won’t you kindly let me suck your toes?”  LOL.  Furthermore, who wants the job of living up to a Goddess-status.   They are perfect.  I am not.  That said, to My slaves— My imperfection is perfection!  Right, boys!

Anyway,   I’ve decided to present a more befitting meme for the article “FemDom Fandom: ParaSocial Interactions”.  The original meme erroneously gave an impression that ParaSocial Interactions are somehow dysfunctional in nature.  They are not. 

For those not a Member, ParaSocial Interactions are one-sided pseudo relationships with celebrities.  To akin it to the FemDom world, ParaSocial Interactions are men “FemDom fans”, who have integrated their FemDom idols into their every day consciousnesses.  Because the FemDoms share their personal opinions, preferences and thoughts with their fans, they are in a way “acting-Goddesses” because they are influencing their fans to think a certain way.

So, FemDom fandoms,  the next time you get made fun of for calling your FemDom icon a “Goddess” give the naysayers some homework, instruct them to read up on “ParaSocial Interactions”!

Photograph:  www.sportsnetworker.com

New Video: Ball Busting Chicken Liver

January 7th, 2017

A new video is coming regarding My notorious mischief in force feeding disgusting foods to My slaves.  Slaves must serve as tools of entertainment!

New Writing Update entitled “FemDom Fandom: Parasocial Interactions” is available in the Private Journal of the Member Area

January 7th, 2017

New Writing update in the Private Journal.

Photo: Communication Science

New Writing and Photo Update entitled “Slave, In your Emptiness…” is available in the Private Journal of the Member Area

January 7th, 2017

New Writing and Photo Update in the Private Journal.

A new photo and writing updates are available in the Private Journal.  A note to slaves regarding the state of their reality.

He’s no Dom

January 7th, 2017
He lacks the imagination and a liking for Women to be a respectable Dom.  Perhaps he has a private-prison quota to fill.
New Mexico HB 206

I’m opposed to private prisons: Profit-dependency corrupts the private prison industry (judges’ kickbacks and politicans’ cash bribes), costs are not lower and programs, correctional services, safety and resources are poor.
Picture by: davegranlund.com

New Photos Update entitled “New Years Eve Celebration” is available in the Private Journal of the Member Area

December 29th, 2016

New Photos update in the Private Member side.

(Previous update fixed – “published”.)

 

New Writing and Photo Update entitled “Eternal Regret” will be available in the Private Journal of the Member Area

December 22nd, 2016

New Photo and Writing update in the Private Member side (scheduled for December 23.)

Reverence for Self-Image

December 22nd, 2016

He looks surprisingly cute, doesn’t he?  He’s got the “Bitch” look down!  But My word, what big hands!  Someone has over-looked this minor detail in Photoshop; it’s common knowledge his hands are on the small side.  Perhaps this is the source of the big, tough-guy persona?

Some cross-dressers are submissive, and many more don’t have a reverence for serving and living under Female authority.  The reverence they do have is for appearance and self-image. Living under Female authority is inconsequential—a mere by-product of their kinks.  I think he would be a great cross-dresser (just not the submissive type); he loves attention and is entirely self-serving!  LOL. Go Donna Trump!

 

Source: www.freakingnews.com

New Writing Update entitled “Dear Mistress” is now available in the Private Journal of the Member Area

December 19th, 2016

New Writing update in the Private Member side.

Dear Mistress

December 19th, 2016

Letter from a slave regarding jealousy.  It’s an intro; the rest of the letter can be found in the Private Journal section of the Member area. 

Unfortunately, I have not received in-put from other Mistresses regarding this issue.  They are much better at vetting than I!    

I hope this perspective teaches readers a thing or two on what it’s like to live among other male slaves.  

Dear Mistress,

i have been with You along with other males many years now.  You have taken me with You to various vacations while also towing Your other slaves.  i have not had any trouble with that.  Of course, i could always prefer to be alone with You, but at the same time, i appreciated that it was what You wanted, and this was more important than any other consideration to me.

In some ways, i also enjoy the presence of other males because i love the way they are all at Your beck and call.  i love seeing You ruling Your court of males with such natural ease and graceful imperiousness.  You are always as sitting on a throne, and all is centered on You.  You are talking, giving orders, demanding, joking.

You are adorable and very natural, joyful.  You are that rare, epitome of Femdom authenticity.

But the orders snapped from Your pretty fingers!  All our attention is completely centered on You, as should be.  Yes, i love seeing this, and being part of Your stable.  Each time You are taking me with You for a vacation or a weekend getaway, i am always happy and grateful, knowing very well that You could instead have left me at Your house.

i could never be jealous of other slaves in the stable, or Your enjoying the presence and company of other males.  i am humble in this, naturally and genuinely.  You are free and You should enjoy life, go out, see other people, be appreciated, celebrated and loved.  i am, by nature, Your slave, it is normal You would leave me when it suits You.  You have taught me that my place is in Your shadow, waiting for You, thinking of You, loving and missing You, but always adoring You.  Ready to welcome You with love and loyal adoration, as Your dog.

But at the same time, i admit it very humbly too, i have cravings to be alone with You all the time.  You have taught me that my feelings are relevant, bearing they do not interfere with You and Your whims.  i humbly thank You for caring enough to hear our perspectives.  You are a most gracious Owner.  i am lucky that You deign to listen to me and to sometimes take me out alone and i am truly forever grateful.  Per Your request, below, please find Your slave’s composition on jealousy.  The best way this slave can rely his humble opinion is to tell You about an experience i had when You enjoyed Yourself on a night out with another of Your slaves.

Respectfully, slave

Happy Holidays Everyone!

December 15th, 2016

Thank you to all who have asked whether they can help with our 2016 Holiday Party for the Children.  This year I’m not involved with the party.  However, if you would like to donate to a charity, of course they are always seeking help:  http://oasisnj.org/how-can-i-help/donate.  Thank you very much!

I wish everyone a very happy holiday and a healthy, peaceful New Year!

New Photos and Writing entitled “Tiny Tim Gets His Ass Kicked” are now available within the Private Journal of the Member Area.

December 13th, 2016

New Photos and Writing update in the Private Member side.

Happy Holidays Everyone!

 

New Video and Writing entitled “Confined and Teased” are now available within the Private Video and Journal Page of the Member Area.

December 6th, 2016

New Video and Writing Update in the Private Member side.

My poor beast.  He loves to eat.  He can’t help himself: he’s French.  The French love good wine, rich foods, etc!  If left to his own accord he would snack on bread all day.  A new video and writing has been added regarding a little tease I do to My slave during dinner-time.

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